Trust the Hum

Trust the Hum

Some years back I attended The School for The Work of Byron Katie. When I got home, a therapist friend asked me how I was doing. I told him that mainly I was aware of a hum. It was a good hum. A hum of simple beingness, and I told him that when I was in touch with the...

Why the past can’t hold you back

A few days back I had a stunning insight while coaching a participant in the Authentic Wealth virtual retreat: I have no history. In a flash I understood that what we believe to be our histories is simply our current thinking about our previous thoughts about people,...
A game you can’t lose: beyond the victim-creator dichotomy

A game you can’t lose: beyond the victim-creator dichotomy

It happens to all of us. Once in a while we get down. Thoughts that circumstances are going against us occur, and we believe them. Before long, we feel like victims of other people or of circumstances. And as if that weren’t enough, we often add insult to...
How to manage from happiness when resistance strikes

How to manage from happiness when resistance strikes

Last week I wrote that moods and emotions are infallible barometers of the quality of our thinking. When we are experiencing the innate wellbeing that is our default setting, our thinking is creative, resourceful, wise. When we are temporarily cut off from our innate...
Managing for Happiness or Why I’ve Stopped Trying to Grow my Business

Managing for Happiness or Why I’ve Stopped Trying to Grow my Business

Some of you know that I’ve been undergoing a sea change in the past several months. The short version is that I’ve awakened to a deeper understanding of Thought and how it creates our experience. Further, and this blows my mind, I’ve come to see that...